Lilly just turned one. Being a parent is full of bittersweet moments and realizing my last baby is no longer a baby is a tough one. With all the hustle and bustle of life, a second child’s milestones can easily be overlooked. I don’t want that to happen in our family and so I will always make a big deal out of them! Even if it is a small party with close friends and family, I always want my girls to feel loved.
When Sophia was little, she was always happy. Always smiling in photos and such a joy to take with me on adventures. When we were thinking about having another baby I very clearly remember thinking ‘we shouldn’t have another baby because they won’t be as good as Sophia.’
I know! But, that’s my pessimistic brain.
A bit over a year later and I laugh at that though. Lilly is every bit as happy as Sophia and is such a joy in our lives. The bond that she has with each of us is so heartwarming. I can already see the differences in relationships.
Her family
She knows that her sister will always be there for her when she falls down and will always make her laugh even when she wants to be sad. Her sister will always be there to share her treats and play with her outside.
She knows her Daddy will always be there for late night snuggles and movie watching. He will be there for her to climb over and twirl with. She knows he will be there to play music and read with.
He will be there for her.
She knows Mommy will be the one to give her kisses all over her face and tummy and toes. She’ll be there to sing her to sleep and have dance parties with. She’ll be there to bathe her, clothe her, feed her, teach her, hug her and all the other wonderful things that comes with being her mom.
I am so thankful we didn’t listen to my pessimistic brain. I can’t imagine life without Lilly and our adventures have just begun.
If you want to see how similar Lilly and Sophia were at age 1 go here.
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